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Pay attention and maybe even journal which words, phrases, dynamics, and scenes resonate with you. Describe as vividly as you can what’s going on in your own words, zeroing in on exactly what is getting you off. All varieties can find their voice through dirty talk, whether you tend toward the kinky and X-rated or more vanilla and tender. Right now, even couples that are sheltering in place together can also benefit from exploring or investing more into dirty talk, too.

Dirty Talk: How To Get More Comfortable With This Sexual Practice

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The intersection of dirty talk and technology is such a huge topic that I literally wrote a whole book about it. One of the biggest themes I wanted to emphasize with that project was that every technological innovation is a tool for belonging. From current trends in sexting and video chat to not-too-distant-future ideas like virtual reality sex and artificially intelligent robot girlfriends, we have the power to harness tech for connection instead of alienation. All we have to do is stay grounded in the needs that make us human.

• Ask what feels pleasurable and always work your way up.
• Aside from the nitty-gritty stuff, though, there are also tons of secondary sexual characteristics for you to explore.
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• When it comes to advanced dirty talk, Horn suggests that you, “really see yourself as a storyteller, a creative person exercising a skill.”

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There’s nothing wrong with a little dirty talk, especially if it’s in the privacy of your bedroom with your partner. Well, Horn says, the pandemic is a perfect breeding ground to talk out those fantasies, since it’s a way to embrace all the things that are now forbidden or dangerous. With words, you can get off on the taboo of having sex with a stranger or in a park or on the beach in the midst of an outbreak — all while never endangering public health. “Remember that words we hate in a non-sexual context take on a whole different meaning and feeling in sexual relationships,” says Horn.

“The art of arousal is all about communication, so making dirty talk or erotic suggestions is the ultimate go-to when it comes to turning someone on.” ICYMI, sending your lover a spicy text—better known as a sext—isn’t just something for LDRs. Anyone can do it (with consent), for any reason, like setting the mood for tonight’s hot date, or letting your partner know you’re thinking of them. If adult movies are any indication, “girl-on-girl” sex is simply a replication of sex between men and women, with one woman taking on the stereotypical male role.

Enter erotic author Jacqueline Jillinghoff, who has already contributed three exquisite stories to our site. Out of the blue, she offered to do some editing for Juicy Secrets after I bemoaned my work load in a story comment. Honestly, I wasn’t fishing for assistance, but wasn’t about to say no, either – especially not to someone who unquestionably had the writer’s chops that the task required. “It’s all about telling your partner how much of a turn-on it is for you to know that you are turning them on,” Eros says. “The best way to show this is not by just saying what you want or plan to do or how you feel, but the ‘why’ behind it. Getting to the ‘why’ really helps add so much more sexual detail.” With some basic education around sexting etiquette (and a little dash of confidence), you’ll be ready to hit send on the spiciest of texts in no time.

One of the fundamentals of dirty talk is understanding how you like to describe your physicality to yourself and to your partners. The language of the body can be one of affirmation as well as erotic possibility. Anatomical language is very gendered, so being able to choose what words you prefer to describe your body, and letting your partners know this is how you prefer to be described, can be a wonderful expression of freedom. “There’s a whole spectrum of dirty talk. There’s the version that’s like using language like a sex toy, to accentuate what you’re already doing,” says Horn. “But then there’s also dirty talk that’s about communicating desires, and what your boundaries and fantasies are with a partner or partners.” “There’s never a bad time to start talking dirty,” says Horn.